I recently had a talk with one of my male friends and we got on the topic of relationships. He said that he doesn't like relationships because most females do too much. Honestly, I agree with him! Bitches do theeeee most! We are in college, why muthafuckas be tryna' damn near be married? That is a force!! In my opinion, all a relationship should consist of is sex and fun shit! Like seriously, we should only be making each other happy. Don't get me wrong, relationships will have their fights and what not but they should not be a major issue. I am a firm believer of build a bridge and get the fuck over it! Either solve the problem or accept the persons fault and live with it.
The biggest problem that I see in relationships is cheating and or insecurities.... I am about to piss some of you bitches off but I don't give a fiiiinnnuck *two chains voice*. If your nigga cheats on you and you stay DONT BE SUPRISED IF HE CHEATS AGAIN! Bitch you know what type of nigga you got. And you got a cheater! BUT I will say maybe if you stop bringing up other bitches and suck his dick more... he may not cheat OR you can just accept the fact that he's a cheater and learn to be content with the attention you're getting from him. Maybe I'm trippin' though.Or not... I never had an issue with my man cheating but it could also be because I never gave enough fucks for me to do CIA research to find out. nahh... prolly cause I sucked his dick on a regular.. lmfao
Another issue I often see in relationships is that many people claim they want a relationship but still act like they're single -____- tf is up with that? Low key, the only times I see situations like this is when one was damn near forced into the relationship.With that being said... if you are getting even a small glimpse that someone does not what to be in a relationship with you DO NOT FORCE IT! If someone wants to be with you, they will let your ass know. I know some people may not be very great with communicating but do not use that or any other excuse to try to force it. If they want you they will let it be known. Do not stress yourself over a muthafucka' that aint ready. Aint ready meaning somebody that is still acting single. I know it is much easier said than done BUT try not to invest too many feelings if nothing was made official... I promise it will save your feelings!!!
The last thing I want to touch on is this...love yourself first!!! When you love yourself you know what you want, what you need and all that other shit. Do not go jumping from relationship to relationship! Give yourself time! Love yourself. Get to know what you REALLY want. Know what you can bring to the table. Are you a 3 looking for a 10? Maybe you are the reason you keep ending up with bitch ass niggas! Figure yourself out before you dive head first into a relationship!
I know i jumped around a lot but it's my blog so fuck it!! lol, but for those that did not understand my main points here they are!
*relationships should ONLY make you a happy camper (:
*if your man is cheating or if you think he is cheating... suck his dick more
*Do not force anyone into a reltationship
*Figure yourself out before jumping into a relationship.
This is my first official blog.... I made it at work... so yeah lol
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